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This is the story of our youngest son Raden Cyrus Agung his life, what he meant to his family, his friends and other things that makes one's life... who passed away on the 28th. January, 1999 at the age of 25 years. It was, and is, the after-death communications with him which gave hope to our lives that we will see each other again.



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    How well do we treat our loved ones?



    By Raden Adji A. Suryo-di-Puro – Father & Grandparent - Jakarta, 28th. January, 2000, quoted from Junaidie Budiman. 
    From:  Junaidie Budiman – a poem

    I ran into a stranger as he passed by.
    “Oh, excuse me please” was my reply.

    He said, “Please excuse me too; 
    I wasn't even watching out for you.”

    We were very polite, this stranger and I. 
    We went on our way and we said our good-byes.

    But at home a different story is told:
    How we treat our loved ones, young and old.

    Later that day, cooking the evening meal, my daughter stood beside me very still.
    When I turned, I nearly knocked her down. “Move out of the way,” I said with a frown.
    She walked away, her little heart broken. I didn’t realize how harshly I’d spoken.

    While I lay awake in bed, God's still small voice came to me and said, 
    “While dealing with a stranger,  you use common courtesy. But the children you love, you seem to abuse.

    “Look on the kitchen floor,
    You'll find some flowers there by the door.

    “Those are the flowers she brought for you.
    She picked them herself, pink, yellow and blue.

    “She stood quietly not to spoil the surprise,
    And you never saw the tears in her eyes.”

    By this time, I felt very small
    And now my tears began to fall.

    I quietly went and knelt by her bed;
    “Wake up, little girl, wake up,” I said.

    “Are these the flowers you picked for me?”
    She smiled, “I found 'em, out by the tree.

    “I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
    I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue.”

    I said, “Daughter, I'm sorry for the way I acted today;
    I shouldn’t have yelled at you that way.”
    She said, “Oh, Mom, that's okay. I love you anyway.”
    I said, “Daughter, I love you too,
    and I do like the flowers, especially the blue.”

    Are you aware that:
    If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could today easily replace us in a matter of days? But the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.
    And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family – an unwise investment indeed.

    So what is behind the story?
    You know what is the full word of family?

    FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER, (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU ?

    It is worthwhile to share more time with them as they are getting older.  Strive for balance, among all things.
    Hence, if those people up there ask you, place our priorities right..
    ask them if family is not the right one??

    Fill life with love and bravery

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    “ ..Everything I wish I could articulate  myself.. ”  I visited (this) webpage and found it to be everything I wish I could articulate myself ... although I know what a heart wrenching task it must have been to put it in words, I am grateful to you for what you have done ... ” Teresa, Arkansas, U.S.A. (a bereaved parent who commemorates her daughter's passing away by inviting other bereaved parents to commemorate their loved one on her website)
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