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Durango, Colorado, Thursday, 28th. January, 1999
I can hardly type this message through my tears. My heart breaks for you. We will pray for you every day. May you feel some comfort from the love of your friends and family. Cyrus

Much love and sincerest sympathy,

Marcia and Ali
Auckland, New Zealand, Thursday, 28th. January, 1999
Hideh and I were immensely saddened to hear of your tragic loss. The blow must have indeed been hard. We are thinking of you all the time in this sorrowful instance. Perhaps Cyrus chose this way in order to grasp the point of life for his next journey. 

For a parent this is the hardest lesson of all and to see a child depart so soon must impose an unbearable pain. 
Love in this sad time

Robin and Hideh

Washington, D.C., Tues., 2nd. February, 1999

I am so saddened hearing about your loss of Cyrus. 

Words cannot sufficiently describe what you have been through, nor can condolences alleviate your grief. There is, however, Almighty God in Heaven. As creator of Heaven and earth, He knows exactly what He is doing. To Him we can turn for strength, for balm for our hurts and grief. Unto Him I would entrust you all; the One who has the whole world in His hand. He will wipe away your tears, and give you joy to replace your grief.

Cyrus is now with the Lord, of Him we know: the Judge of all the earth will do right. So it is not Cyrus where my thought are with. It is with you sister Minou, you Laila, you Arto, and you mas Adji. I imagine: what would Cyrus want for you? I am sure he would want you to love each other, to go on with life, remember all the good things you had together, being grateful to God for allowing to have these 25 precious years of knowing and loving Cyrus, and knowing you have loved him well! That's right, you have loved him well.

Mas Raden, it was so precious what you shared with me. For instance what Cyrus would have felt about his big brother: ...whenever he was in trouble that he could count on him..... Awesome! that was so well said! Knowing that there is big brother to count on! Indeed, you have loved him right! 

Let your memories bring you flowers in this winter of sorrow; let a grateful heart to Almighty God for all the 25 years of knowing and loving Cyrus bring you His peace and comfort during this hurting. 

I pray that not only would you be able to accept Cyrus' passing, but that you would be able to praise Almighty God for Cyrus' death. Impossible to even think about it at this time, but with His help even the impossible is doable. 

May God bless and keep you.

John, Nungki, Jonathan, Vania, Moses
ps: I am so touched you let me share in your grief. God bless you, God bless all of you! The Lord loves you all. JL
Kuala Lumpur, 7th. February, 1999

Bijan and I were very shocked and upset to hear the terrible news that Cyrus had passed away and we send you our deepest sympathy. A parent's bond with their child is so great that the loss must be unbearable. Your letter to Arto was very moving, and on reading it, I almost felt I was with you.

The wonderful thing about that letter was that, amid all the misery, there came the comfort of Cyrus’ smile. 

I could not help feeling that although his life was so short and inevitably unfulfilled, through his death he will be a great influence for good. I could already see from the letter how it is bringing your family very close together. 

Louise, who is in London,  also sends her love and sympathy. 

When you have time, please let us know how you are. We will also write again soon.

With love from Pauline and Bijan
A Life so young released to heaven ... Left on earth, we wonder "Why?"

Dear Auntie Minou & Uncle Adji,

Please know that my heart is with you. I wish there was some way I could be there & help ease your pain. I love you both very much.
Love, Kathy
But some are sent among us briefly ...Some Have Spirits meant to fly.

Dear Auntie Minou & Uncle Adji,

I think of you often; you are in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss; only wish I was closer so I could do more. Please take care of each other. Remember how much everyone in our family loves you.
Love, Fara

Augsburg, Germany, 24th. February, 1999
Cyrus with TatiaSince the day you called, we (Tatjana and I) have been thinking about Cyrus almost constantly, and we are very, very sad. Although we have been living in Germany for almost fourteen years now, Cyrus was a part of our lives in Indonesia, and part of Tatjana's childhood.(Cyrus & Tjana on his left).

When I had to tell her the terrible news that evening, when she returned from the mountains from snow boarding, she was terribly upset. She refused dinner and had tears in her eyes the whole evening. She kept on saying: “I know I should not think like this, but there is nothing I can do about it. Why did it happen to Cyrus. Of all the playmates, he was the sweetest and nicest one!”

I also kept remembering when Adji called me to say that you had given birth to a little boy 25 years ago. Elke and I went to the hospital immediately to see you and the baby. And you complained that your baby was not as beautiful as Elke’s (Frank) because he had such big hands and feet.

But later, the baby with the big hands and feet turned into a beautiful little boy with huge eyes and curly brown hair.

He also had such a nice character. There was nothing mean in him. That is the reason, Tatjana keeps on saying that Cyrus was her best playmate when she was little.

Later on, he was always so worried about you, Minou, and did not want you to smoke too much. Do you remember?

I never thought something like this could happen to Cyrus. He was so extroverted and had such a good relationship with you.

He was good looking, intelligent, and a nice person – his future could have been so bright. I can't believe Cyrus won’t be there when I come to visit you again.

Dear Minou, there is so much to say and I hope that we will get the opportunity to meet soon. 
In the meantime, I hug and cry with you.

Your friend,
Please give my love to Adji, Laila and Arto. I really sympathize with your sorrow.
Dear Auntie Minou,
I lost the best playmate of my childhood. 
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Jakarta,March 10th., 1999
I just want to say that in your time of grief, you are not alone for the good Lord is with you. May His strength and comfort surround you and hold you. Give all your burdens and sorrows to Him for He is waiting with arms open wide.

God Bless you.

Thursday, 4th. March, 1999
You have a beautiful site for Cyrus....I am truly sorry for your loss.  Your pain is so new and raw....I remember when I had newly lost my daughter.  All I can offer is that it never goes away, but eases with time as you learn to live with it.  I have added Cyrus's name and URL to the Garden of Angels.  I wasn't sure if you wanted a new memorial for him or a link to yours, so I have only placed the link for now as I am very behind in my web work.  However, if you wish for me to make Cyrus a separate memorial, just let me know and I will do one as quickly as I can.  Take care. 

Sending wishes for peace and comfort.

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