Arto, the Javanese Prince and Diplomat banner
Home page site map www.suryo.net • Click the banner to see more about Arto parents’ secret stuff

Leaf divider
This is Arto gif
The other 30 stories - The Mangku Negara Crown, the King immune from bullets and cannon balls-the forefather of the Suryo-di-Puro family
Jakarta, Indonesia...world's 5th. largest city... in the world's 4th. largest nation...where is it? Never heard of it? Please click here
The other stories: The former (James Bond) Field Operative and his girl as parentsNow GrandparentingThe Smart Women Environment & City Planning EngineerThe Businessman whom God said to us "I'll Lend you My Child for awhile..." - There is an afterlife: Our 1st. year experience - Our Son's smile 18 hours after crossing to the other dimension - The Do's and Don'ts in facing bereaved parents – from the bereaved's perspectives - A Road Map for the Bereaved – from the bereaved’s perspectives •  More stories

Arto & Mom in NY 1997First son and Minou and Adji's second baby ...well, a big baby at 34. All Parents tendBaby Arto in Germany to think of their grown-up children as babies which they can't help because from helpless 3.5 kilo (7.7pounds) little things to 170 pound, 185cm (6 feet) grownups, parents were there. September 29th. is his birthday.

His Dad was only 24 when he was a secret field operative (that's the kind of people who made trouble for the communists dramatized in James Bond movies, but do exist in real life), making Daddy a baby operative (in Grandma's eyes). With Arto's Mom going to a theater in Broadway, New York, to see the Titanic August 1998. (Right foto 1966 in Germany as a baby)

Arto takes after his Granddad, Raden Mas Suyoto Suryo-di-Puro, who was one of the founders of the Indonesian Foreign Ministry (that's the State Department for Americans) in September 1945.

Arto had a secret wish to become a fighter pilot, had Jane's books and posters on planes, war ships, etc.Arto in front of F-16He was very combative at school, once took on five 12th. graders kids while he was a 9th. grader. Like his Dad, he's no chicken. They beat the daylights out of him and was unconscious for nearly 2 days. At every opportunity he would pick a fight if things didn't please him and didn't give a hoot who his opponents were. Once when he went to school as a 12th. grader in Jember, east Java, the local kids thought this big town Jakarta kid was too stuck up for his own good (didn't pay the necessary 'respect' accorded to them), so 7 senior hi-school kids ganged up on him and knocked 3 of his front teeth out in the first week of school. He calls home for some money to fix his teeth, and Moms being what they are, asked all sorts of questions. After she finished talking Dad took the phone and asked him, "And what are you going to do about it?"
He replied, "I'll handle them." "Okay," his Dad says, "watch out for the knife in the back." "Okay Dad." 10 days later he calls in, and after reporting to his Mom, tells his Dad, "I took care of them."

"How did you do it?" Dad asks. "I went to each one of their homes, talked them out of any hostility, and now they look up to me as their good friend that they respect." 

(Now, that's his version as he is now a diplomat. Diplomats don't go around brawling. But his Dad knows very well, that boys who gang up on one person are not the type to be talked out of anything. And certainly are not going to "respect" anything unless they are talked to in their language. And knowing from his previous history (since he was born, in fact) – and seeing – how he would seek any reason to pick a fight, the story was one by one he beat the hell out of them when he went to each of their homes). 

But for this lifetime, he has to learn to cool it and hence, he is now a diplomat. Arto, at the UN in NYDewi, Rimba and SamBetter for his parents and his family, too. None of this thing like Great, great, great, great grand dad King Samber Nyowo's  kill-the-enemy "life taker" reputation, Grand Dad's national freedom clandestine radio operations when he was once nearly shot as a "spy" by the Japanese, and his Dad's anti-communists missions. He is now a more sedate political officer at the Permanent Mission of Indonesia to the United Nations, New York. He also participated during Indonesia's chairmanship in 1998 of the Group of 77, the 133-nation grouping of the developing world, including on occasions as its spokesman. (Right photo, top, Arto's wife Dewi, their sons--Minou & Adji's grandsons -- Rimba & Sam, short for Samudra or 'ocean', Arto's office Sep. '98).

His Dad, Adji, is hardly briefed on what he does and finds out about these things from the internet. After that a U.N. diplomat in New York who works closely with Arto told his Mom when visiting New York in 1998, "Didn't you know he's pretty famous? He's our chairman!"

Arto is a good representative and diplomat for the Indonesian people (of whom 75% are under the age of 30 years totalling about 165 million people out of a total of 220 million population,the Statistic Agency stated in various 1997 & 1999 press reports), as elders and contemporaries commented to his parents. 

He speaks perfect English, his name is well known among the English-speaking readers of English publications because he frequently publishes articles in the English and Indonesian press, and besides looking good as a potential future Foreign Minister, as Grand Mom Iran Malek Mahdavi Mousheri in Tehran commented, he is a nationalist -- which, in the mind of his Grand Dad and his old man, that's what it is all about when one is a diplomat.

He's also working on his post graduate degree after office hours, majoring in East Asian Studies in St. John's University, just like his Grand Mom, Raden Ayu Ambariah Arismundar, did as a diplomat's wife in Ottawa, Canada in the 1955s.

Ambas. Nana Sutresna and ArtoPrior to that he was at Indonesia's Foreign Ministry and assigned to the Office of the Non-Aligned Movement (N.A.M.) under Ambassador-at-Large, Mr. Nana Sutresna (left foto at the Foreign Office in Jakarta), who took Arto on international assignments. N.A.M. member nations now total 113. Grand Dad, who passed away October 1991, would have been pleased to know his grandson joined the foreign service, and very pleased Grand Dad's former junior colleagues (who are now the big wigs at the Foreign Ministry) took his grandson in as one of their own.

“Did you know that Indonesia ...”
Click on the sunset photo

 

 

Leaf divider
Meet the other family gif
leaf divider gif
spacespace
What other world wide web Sites have to say about these Life-Connection Webpages
“ ..I hope you continue your road map.. ” www.iGrandparents.com  –  the web's largest site on grandparenting:I looked at your site (it was excellent) ... I hope you continue to design your great site and continue your road map!* Have a good day.”  ... Bryan Butakis  www.iGrandparents.com *Road map is a reference on real-life experience, the "how-to" of handling the devastation and bereavement of losing one's child, and the psychic and physicalAfter Death Communications” found in several webpages at the www.suryo.net site map.
“ ..success stories!”  Living in Indonesia - A site for expats  –  one of the largest web sites for Expats living in the vast and sprawling Indonesian nation, the world's 4th. largest populated nation.. click here for more infoIt's great to have real life examples of all the things we're talking about ... Especially the ‘success stories’ of the kids** of these (mixed) marriages ...Your sites are very interesting and offer valuable insight to many ... good luck with them all!! ... All the best”  ... Danielle Sukarty, Organizing Committee, Living in Indonesia - A site for expats  •  **Laila 35 years the smart Environment & City Planning Engineer  & **Arto 34 years, the Diplomat
What other Moms had to say ...
“ ..Everything I wish I could articulate  myself.. ”  I visited (this) webpage and found it to be everything I wish I could articulate myself ... although I know what a heart wrenching task it must have been to put it in words, I am grateful to you for what you have done ... ” Teresa, Arkansas, U.S.A. (a bereaved parent who commemorates her daughter's passing away by inviting other bereaved parents to commemorate their loved one on her website)
“I've found a shelter in a storm.. ” How amazingly wonderful your site is! My son Karl died on 2/21/01. He was 18. I miss him IMMENSELY! Hugs to you and your beautiful wife. Thank you so much for sharing your hearts. I especially Love seeing photo's of your beautiful son Cyrus. I'm saving your web pages and plan to read EVERY word... It's so wonderful you have such an important and extensive site for human beings in such pain and need. Know that today, thank's be to God and You, I've found a shelter in a storm. GOD BLESS YOU & YOUR WIFE AND DEAR CYRUS!!!”  Colleen McCurdy, 25 Mar. ’01 |
What other folks had to say... | The Do's and Don'ts in facing bereaved parents–from the bereaved's perspectives|| After-Death Communications is Real – The Miracle of the Fan | “Our Son in the other dimension”
What a Dad had to say ...
“ ..it brought tears in my eyes.. ” I am so sorry about the loss of your son Cyrus. I have read the story that you wrote in the page. I cannot imagine the trauma that you and your wife had to go thru, it brought tears in my eyes at the middle of the story what you must have gone thru. How sad it must had been. We too had our sorrows and had to go thru the valley of the unknown hurts of life... Gustaaf Vogelsang 8 August, 2001
What a bereaved Mom & Dad have to say ...
“ ..losing a child is far more devastating.. ” Losing an offspring like our 25 year old, Cyrus, is a devastation NO parent will ever know, unless ONE EXPERIENCES it. It is far more devastating than losing one's own parents and brothers and sisters – which we had experienced and had gone through several times. More so when this child was a living doll, then no longer a child, became an adult and then a friend, a trusted buddy who can instead give advice, and whom we can share experiences with . On Jan. 28, 1999 when he passed away, and 2½ years later on Aug. 7th. 2001, our voices still break up and tears welled up in his mother's eyes , when a friend who did not know Cyrus was no longer with us, asked “...and how is Cyrus..?” || The Do's and Don'ts in facing bereaved parents – from the bereaved's perspectives
–  Click the underlined above for the different stories and experiences  –
Email What other Moms & Dad had to say ...  to a Friend? ... click here
Yahoo Web Ring - Profile A. Suryo-di-Puro | Bahasa Indonesia
The other 30 stories - The Mangku Negara Crown, the King immune from bullets and cannon balls-the forefather of the Suryo-di-Puro family
For those first starting off in Life
space
Start life with someone you can spend hours talking – about anything
Physical attributes (and physical attraction) come second ... they go away in time.
When you can communicate – and because of it understand each other, you will avoid misunderstandings, fights and boredom ... then “Life Together” after 38 years can become a reality ... and is worth it.
space
Life-Connection Website made possible by the WebringSend Email to a friend with similar experiences to join the Life-Connection Website ring
This Life-Connection Website site is owned by www.suryo.net|| Join Ring | Previous 5 Sites | Previous|| Next | Next 5 Sites Random Site | List Sites | What's a Ring?
space
Some MIDI music while thinking about that right person | You do something | Someone to Watch Over Me | Days of Wine & Roses | ³**EGBlues| ³**All Blues
space
Personals Logo
MEET YOUR MATCH! Click here to go to Your Life-Connection Website
A Proud Member of the One & Only Associate Network • Click here or  the banner
One&Only Internet Personals is the largest most successful personals & Matchmaking site on the internet with customizable search and picture searches.
ALTERNATIVE PERSONALS! Click here to go to Your Life-Connection Website
A Proud Member of the Alternative Connections Network • Click here or the banner
AlternativeConnections Extreme Personals is geared toward a much spicier and jaded audience. This site is not for everyone, and addresses a different audience
Come meet Family .gif
Letter Animation
suryo@suryo.net
The  Life-Connection  Website Site Map
A La Carte - the Menu
A Javanese Prince who married an Iranian Princess - A James Bond True-Life Story
Raden Roro Laila - The Smart Woman Environment Engineer
Raden Arto, Javanese prince The Diplomat...& his family
Raden Cyrus Agung ... 9 Nov. 1973–28 Jan. 1999* & remembering his favorite kind of music
An Eulogy to a departed Son
   – In Bahasa Indonesia
A poem: God said: "I'll lend you my Child..."
–  A friend Asks: Tell me about Cyrus?
Friends say: My Heart Breaks for you
In memory of Cyrus' 1st. Anniversary in the Other Dimension Music Page–28 January, 2000
The Do's and Don'ts in facing bereaved parents – from the bereaved's perspectives
Published Reference List on the After-Life, Near Death Experiences & After-Death Communications
What Do the Other Dimensions & “After Death Communications” Convey?
After-Death Communications is Real - The Miracle of the Fan 26 Aug., 1999 - continued ...
    ... The One-Legged Grasshopper • The Air Conditioning System • The Exploding Light Bulb
 – A Prayer for our Son & all other departed children
Raden Mas Suryo-di-Puro, senior diplomat (Granddad)
Javanese Weddings reflect parents lifetime roles
A King immune from bullets and cannons ...
Some of the Iranian Family & Friends ...
Hobbies...for Bikers (1,000cc+) sports & cruisers
Indonesia's 220 Million World's 4th largest country...
   – List of 42 International Schools
Jakarta's 20 million ... one of the world's 5 largest city
The Bali Experience, a life style of its own
Why Do We Have Different Beliefs? Because of Conditioning?
Some Great Things About Becoming Old
Grandparenting
Are you a Persian?
If I had My Life To Live Over Again
The World Is Full of Sons and Daughters Like Me
The writer is a Member of
The HTML Writers Guild
and a former English language journalist & editor with the AFP French National news agency & Antara Indonesian News Agencies in London, Paris, & Koln in the mid-'60s
Email this page to a Friend? ... click here  
 The beige background of the menu on the left comes from the "batik" motif or "bahan titik", an acronym  which means material made from dots, the process of making handmade batik cloth.
In Cyrus' Memory
Cyrus Heartland Memorial

Cyrus' Banner
Cyrus banner by Daisy Logo
Letter Animation
suryo@suryo.net


Coolboard
Post your Life Connection experiences here
Earth Is Our Home-Let's Take Care of It
Ecology Library |  Waste Watch | Why Files | Discovery Channel | Gen. Modified Foods
Other Interesting Useful Sites® Sites & Trademarks are Properties of their respective owners
  • Amazon.com Books
  • Baby Center
  • Barnes & Noble.com
  • 1,000 Magazines site
  • FogDog Sports
  • Computer Software
  • News iSyndicate
  • Free Credit Reporting
  • Anti-Aging - Getting old?
  • Join AOL World's Largest ISP Now amp Get 250 Free Hours
  • Get YourNext VISA Card
  • Free Computer Tips
  • Education Aid & Info
  • PCWorld's Newsletters
  • Get free forwardable generic mailyou@email.com
  • PC Magazine's Free Utilities
  • Freeware Quality Software
  • Ask Live ZD Net (PC Mag) Experts Tech Questions
  • Find All the Latest Linux Downloads from CNet.com
  • 2000 Horoscopes
  • First uploaded 17th. October, 1997 • Last 8 August, 2001
    Animated Cyrus child banner. God said: ‘I’ll lend you my Child’.
     *Cyrus our youngest passed away on the 28th. of January 1999 at the age of 25. The family is mourning his passing away. See what God says about our children ...
    space
    A secret true life James Bond family adventure
    Google
    Search WWW Search www.suryo.net 
    SHARE THE LIFE CONNECTION  –  OTHER  PEOPLE’S  EXPERIENCES & WEBSITES
    Do you have a website with these themes below?  Your experiences may help and give others pointers.  Link to this and 26 of our other sites and ours to yours?
    Send your URLs to me for review • Tell a Friend & ask them to post their experiences
    Living in Indonesia the world’s 4th. largest nation  -  the Expatriates’ Views

    Living in Indonesia • A site for Expats
    Overview|| Moving Preparations|| Useful Info & Funny Expat Stories | Doing Business | Some of the 42 International Schools | Living In Indonesia Forum-Post Your Questions | Expat Community Organizations | Housing|| Shops, Products & Services | Explore its Vast Territories | Medicine & Drug Translator | Travel Medicine, What You Should Know |
    200 Useful Links on all things in Indonesia
    Site for Seniors (the over 50s), old but not dead - and now much smarter - people like ourselves
    For Children like our
    26, 33year Sons & 34 year Daughter who are improvements of ourselves
    For God's Flowers
    like our 3 Grandchildren
    The Whys, the Whats and maybe even the Hows of Life
    Miscellaneous
    Seniors site Map | Free EGreetings E-cards | Depressed? Visit the depression Center | Great Things About Becoming Old | Mental Health | For Latest Health Info Children's Express | ParentsPlace| UK Parents-Daily Parent | Children/Parents & Divorce Drugs|| Info Youth | Fertile Thoughts | 1001 Cool Things To Say | 1000 Recipes | Angel of Fashion |
    For Kids By Kids | BabyWorldUnder 18 | Children's Experiences | Children's Tall Tales | Baby Data | Education-Kids up to 14
    Strange Phenomena | All Faiths Press | Talk Religion | HeartlandHills Memorial | Free Tarrot Card Reading | Chinese Astrology | Zodiacs1- 2- 3| Instant Horoscope Movie Query Engine | New Movies | First Aid | Healthfinder| Dumb Laws | History Museum Paris | Internet Movie Database | Bartlett's Quotations + Search |
    .
    More later ... 

    WEB SITE PROMOTIONAL AFFILIATES
    BUY DIRECTPAY DIRECTSHIPPED DIRECT BY THE SUPPLIER •

    These sites were created with NetScape Composer 4.x–4.7
    Netscape
     
    you@email.com
    Lowestmagazine prices on the Web
    Short URLs
    Credit analysis
    Add Me!
    Easy Submit
    Freeware
    Free Useful Software
    2000 Horoscopes
    Free US InternetSerProviders 
    Choose Your Newspaper
    Netscape 4.x How-to Tips
    US Residents: Compare 4000 Cellfone Services & 200 Phone Products & Accesories
    Converter: mph-kmh, lbs-kgs, ft-m, vol.torque, temp. etc.
    Remove Startup Programs
    Your Photos 3-D ScreenSaver
    Modifiable Clipboard
    Electronic Assistant PIM
    FreeDay/Date/Mo/Yr Taskbar Clock
    Official Consumers Electronics Association Site
    Submit Your Tender/Offer
    NextCard Internet Visa
    Earth Is Our Home-Let's Take Care of It
    Ecology Library | Waste Watch | Why Files| Discovery Channel | Gen. Modified Foods


    HEALTH &NEWS

    Search MotherNature.com Search MotherNature.com
    Search MotherNature.com
    Shop By AilmentShop By Gender/Age • Naturopathic Medicines • Weight Loss • Supplements • Specialty Formulas • Minerals • Homeopathic • Teas• Herbs • Vitamins • Diet & Sports Nutrition • Pet Products • Coffee Products • Aroma Therapy Products • Bath & Body Products • Books From Mother Nature • Back & Neckcare • Osteopathy • Prenatal Supplements
    Note: Because of continual product changes you may not find the same named
    products above, but by entering their homepage and clicking their
    "Ask Our Personal Shopper" it will help you find exactly what you're looking for.
    JakartaPost
    Jakarta's Leading English Daily
    LOGO KompasCyberMedia Indonesia’s largest circulation daily
    versi Indonesia | in English | Dutch
    Pos Kupang (WestTimor Daily) | Sriwijaya Post (East Java daily) | Banjarmasin Post
    Financial Times | All Worlds Online Papers | BBC|| The Mirror||

    FREE E-MAILER MAIL — CHOOSE YOUR LANGUAGE
    yourname@e-mailer.zzn.com

     Sign Up with e-mailer Mail
    ZZN Account
    Use Your Own Name without numbers - Lots of names still available - yourname@e-mailer.zzn.com - 12 languages, 4 more coming up
     First Name:  Last Name:  


    space

    WebRing is the first, largest, and fastest-growing service of its kind on the Internet, providing one of the easiest ways for visitors to navigate the Web.In each of its tens of thousands of Rings, Member web sites have banded together to form their sites into linked circles. Their purpose:  to allow more visitors to reach them quickly and easily. An extraordinary system servicing three primary World Wide Web groups: Visitors, Member sites and advertiser-merchants, WebRing remains entirely open and free of charge to both Visitors and Members. As a leading online navigation aid, WebRing is experiencing a growth rate of over 10% monthly. Daily page requests from visitors exceed 2,000,000; Member sites total over 1,300,000; Rings total over 80,000. The WebRing system can support a nearly unlimited number of separate and distinct Rings across the Internet. This unique structure allows the creation and evolution of tens of thousands of different "web communities." Through navigation links found most often at the bottom of Member pages, Visitors can travel all or any of the sites in a Ring. They can move through a Ring in either direction, go to the next or previous site, or list the next five sites in the Ring. They can jump to a random site in the Ring, or survey all the sites that make up the Ring. The quickest way to find a Ring of interest is to visit WebRing's online Directory, or use RingSearch to search for Rings across the entire system, then refine your search by searching within a Ring. Previous 5 Sites | Previous| Next| Next 5 Sites | Random Site | List Sites | Join This Ring with your Life-Connection Experiences | Help| WebRing Directory
    To change screen settings to 800x600 pixels, the 'middle' standard used in over 85% of all web pages created around the world, point cursor at empty point in taskbar, choose Minimize All Windows, when minimized point cursor at any empty point in windows, right click mouse, choose Properties, choose Settings, choose Screen Area, choose the Midpoint for 800x600 pixels. Click OK. It takes less than 15 seconds to do, your computer won't be damaged or blow up, and you can always get back to your original settings by following the instructions on the screen.
    MIDI, or musical instrument digital interface, is a standard used by sound-card makers and musical instrument manufacturers to let various electronic instruments and sound processors talk to each other. Because MIDI sound samples and synthesis algorithms are stored on the local system (either in your sound card, the PC's processor, or in an external MIDI module), all that needs to be sent over the wire is a series of signals that say what note to play when. For that reason, extremely small MIDI files (less than 5K) can still deliver several minutes of music. A 3 minute MP3 sound carries a size of some 2.7 MB, while the equivalent 3 minute MIDI file is about 1/100 its size (27K). MIDI notes and sound effects are usually limited to the sounds in the standard General MIDI set. General MIDI is a fairly extensive set, including drums, woodwinds, strings, and some sound effects, but it's not the same as recording your own sounds or your voice which you can with MP3. Also, MIDI quality depends almost exclusively on the sound system used for playback. A PC with an el cheapo sound card using weak FM synthesis technology could make even a brilliant MIDI arrangement sound like a $15 electronic keyboard, whereas an expensive wavetable synthesis sound system could produce awe-inspiring MIDI tones. For quicker down loading, MIDI files are used here.
    ¹MIDI music from Bourbon Street & ²From MidiWorld³Sequenced (played & arranged) by Devian, a 30-year Indonesian graduate from the Berkely School of Music & used with permission • º Sequenced by Jan Halsema & used with permission • *Wherever possible and available permission was requested from their composers • **Used with permission • All music tracks are available for non-commercial use